2. You’re spending too much time on your relationship
Acknowledging that a friend will no longer be as available as they once were is one of the most difficult transitions that occurs when they enter a new relationship. Furthermore, it might cause anger and even hatred when you’re bored on a Saturday night while they’re enjoying a lovely date night. This can then result in heated discussions about how you think they should be spending more time with their new partner and less time with you and your group.
But keep in mind that your pal is merely doing what people in love do before going too far and taking over their phone’s calendar app. The author of “The Friendship Cure,” Kate Leaver, stated to Mashable,
People who experience romantic love often overlook and forget their partners. It’s simply ingrained in our programming to view that kind of love as better and, so, supremely significant.”
Refrain from criticizing your friend for their time management decisions. Things will probably settle down as their relationship grows, and they’ll find time to hang together on a regular basis once more.
However, it doesn’t mean you can’t express your need for some alone time. “You might not see each other as frequently as before, but as long as you make the effort to plan time together, your friendship will survive,” psychotherapist Susan Hepburn told Glamour UK. Start a casual lunch or enjoyable evening out, and from time to time bring their new partner along.