4. They’re not good enough for you
When your best friend starts dating someone new, you want to be there for them as a protective, loving friend. You may believe that informing them of their partner’s poor choice is a favor offered if you’ve discovered that they’ve paired up with someone unworthy of your attention. But this can put your acquaintance in a difficult situation where they have to deal with a friend who disapproves of their new relationship. And sometimes they will turn their backs on you so they won’t be criticized.
“In the event of a break-up or fight, resist jumping in and defaming [your friend’s partner’s] character,” life coach Carol Ann Rice told Glamour UK. Relationships might frequently rekindle, which will leave you on
It’s crucial to identify the precise qualities of your friend’s partner that you find objectionable. Relationship therapist Michelle Lin told ABC Everyday that there’s a vast difference between toxic conduct and small problems like personality conflicts. Your friend may need the support they need to exit the relationship if their new partner appears aggressive or controlling. You should consider gently approaching them or being there for them when they need you.
Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 if you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse. Their website has further resources, information, and assistance.